A day that I know is difficult for Alex and Ashley. It is also a difficult day for me. It reminds me of several things. Brian was without a doubt the best dad I've ever known and that there was such a contrast between what a dad should be and what my dad was like. And how a "step"-dad that stepped in and stepped up gets so little recognition on this day.
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This morning however, he got a sweet, sweet gift from Ashley and I just wanted to acknowledge it here.
This was her text to me:
I don't know if I have Papa's number but please tell him I said Happy Father's Day. We listened to a message at church today about fathers having fathers and men that spoke into them and raised them to be good fathers and husbands and I am so thankful for Papa being there to speak into my dad and raise him to be the father that he was. Because the generations continue with the things we learn from fathers and I'm grateful to have learned so much from mine. I've only cried twice today already so far lol. I love you both.
What a gift to him and what a sweet tribute to her dad.
It's difficult to be a parent and it is sometimes the most thankless job in the world. It has to be even more difficult to be the dad that took on three children that were not his; loved them, supported them and parented them through all the hard times while their own biological fathers walked away.
Ashley channeled her own dad today with this message as he is the only one of the three that has ever acknowledged that his stepdad did what he didn't have to do and was truly a father to him when his real father walked away and deserted him.
Brian's spirit was absolutely close to us today because as Ashley was writing this to us - the church handed out packets of "Skittles" with a reminder to pray about bible school! Skittles. Notoriously known as Brian's favorite candy - his house was never without a jar of Skittles on the counter. Kara even had Skittles on his wedding cake!
